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Stories of Orange Love

Thursday, February 9, 2017, By John Boccacino
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As Valentine鈥檚 Day approaches, we鈥檙e capturing the stories of #OrangeLove. Meet six couples who found true love thanks to 黑料不打烊, then submit your own #OrangeLove story.

Jennifer Brody 鈥90 and Jeffrey Kohn 鈥92

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Jennifer Brody, Jeffrey Kohn and kids

Brody and Kohn met on campus through Jeff鈥檚 sister Rikki 鈥89, but there was a roadblock to a relationship: Jenn already had a boyfriend. While both later admitted there was an initial attraction, they never acted on it as undergraduates.

Soon after Kohn graduated, he attended the Culinary Institute of America and moved back to New York City, where he frequently found himself running into Brody in the most random of locations.

After the third chance encounter, in the fall of 1994, Brody invited Kohn to a Halloween party and the romance bloomed from there.

When it came time to propose, Kohn devised a unique plan. Knowing Brody loved cats, he put the ring in their litter box. He knew her first task when she returned home from work would be cleaning it out.

She found the ring and immediately accepted. From there, the couple was on to their next challenge: opening a bread bakery, the Kneaded Bread, in Port Chester, New York. Five months after the bakery opened, on Oct. 31, 1998, the couple wed as part of an orange-clad affair.

鈥満诹喜淮蜢 is a strong part of who we are, and we live it. We鈥檙e very different people, but that鈥檚 good. Jeff has never balanced a checkbook in his life; I do all of that. I鈥檓 the good cop and Jeff is the bad cop,鈥 she says.

After 18 years of marriage, the couple is now raising two boys together. They also own the Q Restaurant and Bar, where everything is orange鈥攆rom the chairs and benches to the awning, signage and paint on the walls.

鈥淥range is the dominant color in our restaurant and it was a no-brainer. We go up to campus all the time and I鈥檓 thankful for our time at SU. 黑料不打烊 sets you up for success. The people there are motivated, and they network and help each other out. It鈥檚 an unbelievable bond,鈥 he adds.

Katie Garton 鈥10 and Mike Desir 鈥10

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Katie Garton, Mike Desir and their son, Rufus

Garton and Desir met with only two weeks remaining in their junior year, and they met by coincidence. Katie was working on her final photography class project and was following around one of Mike鈥檚 friends, Jemar Souza 鈥09, for a week when the two future lovebirds met for the first time.

While Garton was busy photographing Souza鈥檚 life on campus, she caught Desir鈥檚 eye, and the two got to know each other. At Souza鈥檚 graduation party, they realized there was a mutual attraction and exchanged phone numbers.

The upcoming summer vacation provided a challenge. Garton was heading back to Iowa and Desir to New Jersey. To combat the distance, the two spoke daily on the phone, and the conversations were so fun and natural that they decided to start dating.

But there was another roadblock: Desir was planning on studying abroad in Italy the first semester of 2009. After realizing 鈥淲e didn鈥檛 want anyone else to have the other person,鈥 Garton says, she started looking for internships in New York City and eventually landed one.

鈥淭hat was the best summer, the summer of love in New York,鈥 Garton says.

The new couple Skyped frequently while Desir was in Italy, and when he returned to 黑料不打烊, Garton found him an apartment on Sumner Avenue, across the street from her apartment.

After graduation, they moved three times: first to Harlem, then back to Des Moines, Iowa, then finally to Chicago, where they were engaged in May of 2012.

The couple wed in Chicago on Sept. 28, 2013, in a predominantly orange wedding, complete with orange lanterns, orange tables and an orange backdrop behind the newlyweds’ table. Even the lighting in the room was tinted orange. Her high heels were bright orange, His socks were orange, the bridesmaids had bouquets made of orange brooches and the groomsmen wore orange socks and had orange in their ties.

They currently live in Chicago and are raising a young son, Rufus. The couple nearly made their son鈥檚 middle name Otto, but instead decorated his nursery in all orange.

鈥淲e always say if it weren鈥檛 for 黑料不打烊 we probably wouldn鈥檛 have met. I wouldn鈥檛 have had that photography project where I stalked his friend for a week, which meant I probably wouldn鈥檛 have met Mike,鈥 she says. 鈥淲e still wear our orange #AllOrangeEverything T-shirts that Jemar made for us when we were undergraduates. 黑料不打烊 always has held a special place in our lives.鈥

Jessica Cain 鈥06 and Kevin Kopko 鈥06

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Jessica Cain and Kevin Kopko

Cain was raised by 黑料不打烊 graduates鈥擱on 鈥85 and Karen Cain 鈥77, who have been married for 36 years. Now she is married to her 黑料不打烊 sweetheart.

While she met her future husband when the two were freshmen living in Shaw Hall, it wasn鈥檛 until the Orange were gearing up for their historic run to the men鈥檚 basketball national championship game in March of 2003 that the two really hit it off.

They watched Carmelo Anthony and company claim SU basketball鈥檚 first-ever national championship with an 81-78 win over Kansas, bonding over basketball at Tully鈥檚 restaurant on Erie Boulevard.

A walk-on member of the football team, Kopko taught Cain about football. Cain, who grew up in nearby Camillus, introduced Kopko, a Philadelphia native, to the restaurants of 黑料不打烊. Following one of Kopko鈥檚 spring football scrimmages inside the Carrier Dome, he invited her onto the turf field, where the pair took their first official photo as a couple.

After they started dating, Kopko and Cain both joined University 100 as student ambassadors for SU. Occasionally they would give tours together and would casually wink at each other whenever the tour passed by the kissing bench, since that was where Kopko first told Cain he loved her.

Kopko also kissed her on the bench and, true to the legend that couples who kiss on the bench are destined for marriage, the couple wed on Sept. 7, 2013. Their engagement photos were taken on campus, and the wedding party gathered at the iconic front walkway at the Hall of Languages for photos after the ceremony.

鈥淪U holds a really important place for both of us and we have many great memories of our campus,鈥 she says. She and her husband are raising a young daughter.

鈥淚t鈥檚 a great school academically and personally. It鈥檚 also the place I met my soulmate. Anytime someone brings up college, it fills me with such happiness, and we still bleed orange to this day. SU gave us the foundation for a great family,鈥 she continues.

Lisa Savioli 鈥98 and Phil Olshanski 鈥96

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Lisa Savioli and Phil Olshanski

On the day that Savioli was to graduate from the University with a degree in broadcast journalism, her mind was racing thinking about her bright future, and celebrating her graduation with family, friends and her boyfriend, Olshanski.

The two had been dating since November 1995, when Olshanski was a resident advisor in Brewster/Boland鈥攖he residence hall where Savioli lived.

Their first date, a screening of the James Bond film 鈥淕oldenEye,鈥 presented a unique challenge for Olshanski, who got lost driving Savioli back from what was then known as Carousel Mall.

鈥淚 had made that drive so many times, and here I am on a first date and I get lost. I wanted to make a good impression on her, and I got a little flustered,鈥 Olshanski recalls. 鈥淏ut Lisa said 鈥極h, this is great, I love getting lost and driving around,鈥 and instead of ruining the night, she was able to disarm me in a way that no one had ever really been able to. In that moment, I told myself I would one day marry this girl.鈥

The two started dating and Olshanski made a habit of walking with Savioli to her classes inside the Hall of Languages.

The relationship quickly blossomed. Despite spending 18 months apart鈥攂etween Olshanski graduating and landing a job in Hoboken, New Jersey, and Savioli still studying at SU鈥擮lshanski would plan romantic surprises, like the time he drove seven hours in a driving snowstorm to surprise his sweetheart for Valentine鈥檚 Day.

The biggest surprise came following Savioli鈥檚 commencement.

鈥淎fter graduation, I had arranged to meet my parents, my brother and my grandmother outside of Gate E, and there was Phil waiting for me,鈥 she remembers. 鈥淗e walked up to me, got down on one knee and proposed. I was stunned because he had never wanted to talk about marriage before that point. No one was expecting it and we didn鈥檛 have anyone to take our photo. It was such a great surprise!鈥

Proving he really hadn鈥檛 planned the proposal far in advance, Olshanski laughs when he recalls purchasing the engagement ring the day before graduation.

鈥淭hat ring was burning a hole in my pocket that day. I always told Lisa we wouldn鈥檛 discuss marriage until she was out of school, so I waited until the day she graduated to ask her to marry me,鈥 he adds. 鈥淭he ultimate payoff was surprising the heck out of her on graduation day.鈥

Cindy Felzer 鈥70 and Robert Leitzell 鈥70

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Cindy Felzer and Robert Leitzell

Felzer and Leitzell started as rivals in a race for a seat on the student senate.

What began as a political competition actually offered the perfect chance to get to know each other, as the two would spend a lot of time campaigning in the residence halls and fraternity and sorority houses.

Both were elected to serve on the student senate, and following each senate meeting the couple would go out to a bar鈥擳he Country Club鈥攁s friends. After a year spent getting to know each other, Felzer and Leitzell began dating in 1969.

The couple wed in 1972 and raised two boys, Stephen and Kevin. Kevin graduated from SU in 2000. The basement of their Philadelphia home is a shrine to SU athletics.

鈥淥ne hundred percent of the credit for our relationship goes to 黑料不打烊. We loved our time at SU and we both received great educations,鈥 Felzer says. 鈥淲e were from entirely different backgrounds, as Bob was from a small town in Western New York and I am from Philadelphia. Our paths never would have crossed without 黑料不打烊.鈥

Corey Straetmans 鈥99 and Brian McIsaac 鈥99

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Corey Straetmans and Brian McIsaac

Straetmans met her husband, McIsaac, at a new student send-off event in Birmingham, Michigan, but they did not see each other regularly on campus during that first year at SU.

It wasn鈥檛 until Thanksgiving break of their sophomore year that the two spent any real time together. Realizing there weren鈥檛 many Michigan natives on campus, Straetmans offered McIsaac a ride home for break. He had already purchased a plane ticket back to Michigan for the following day, but he accepted her ride offer and the relationship took off from there.

鈥淭he entire time we were in the car (six to seven hours) we never turned on the radio once: we were talking the whole time,鈥 she remembers. 鈥淲hen I got home, I told my mother that I鈥檇 met the guy I was going to marry. We fell for each other pretty hard and pretty fast, spent Christmas with each other鈥檚 families, and we fell in love soon after.鈥

During her senior year on campus, Straetmans started working for WSTM, the NBC affiliate in 黑料不打烊, and often had her hands full balancing classes and a full-time job. She remembers McIsaac bringing her dinner on long days.

McIsaac proposed in August of 1999 and the couple married one year later. They are raising three children together: Dolan Patrick (12), Finn Michael (10) and Maggie (9).

鈥淲e鈥檙e both people of faith and we both feel like God brought us together through 黑料不打烊 to make our family whole,鈥 Straetmans says. 鈥淚t was in God鈥檚 hands for us to meet at 黑料不打烊.鈥

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